My wife and I ( mid 40's ) talk about her being with another woman and 3 somes with one during sex. It really gets her off and me too. The other day after sex she told me she really wants to be with a woman and have me watch and join in. My question is, does anyone have any experience in making this happen? We don't want it to be a friend in case they get weird about it. Escorts? Any help is appreciated...

As long as you are sure about it. Probably best way to land a session is to post it on some off the free internet classifieds under adult classifieds.  You can screen out applicants as you request stats and info and pics . I'm a forties male and that was how I was able to hook up with another married couple.  Other option is too try female escort , but may get very pricey .      

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Having sex with somebody you don't know can be terribly risky.  My wife and I became interested in having sex with other people several years ago, but were undecided about who to have sex with and where to find them.  One day a friend of hers was visiting her during the day and could see that my wife was concerned about something.  She asked my wife what was so deep in her thoughts and my wife finally opened up that we felt we needed more excitement in our sex lives and were considering having sex with other couples but didn't know how to approach it.  That was the best thing she could have done.  Her friend immediately offered to have sex with me saying she had always been attracted to me since the first time she had met me and that her husband had many times told her that he wanted to fuck my wife.  My wife was sold.  What really clinched the deal was when her friend said she'd like to have sex with my wife right then and there which they did.  Over the years we have had sex with them many, many times and have been able to add other friends to the mix by just being honest with them.  It is surprising how many people really are interested in having sex with many other people.  Some of your best friends and neighbors are probably thinking about having sex with you.  We've even had family members let us know they wanted to have sex with us.  Just try being honest with people you trust and tell them about your needs.  You probably will be pleasantly surprised about how many of them have the same needs and desires and would love to experience them with you.

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My wife and I ( mid 40's ) talk about her being with another woman and 3 somes with one during sex. It really gets her off and me too. The other day after sex she told me she really wants to be with a woman and have me watch and join in. My question is, does anyone have any experience in making this happen? We don't want it to be a friend in case they get weird about it. Escorts? Any help is appreciated...

I went with a friend.  I felt comfortable asking her to join in with us.  We have been close for years.  We too are in our forties.  One day when she came over I went behind her and gave her a hug lettering know how much she meant to me.  We kissed and then wound upmaking love together.  It was the first time ever I made love to another women.  It was wonderful I then asked her if she would join my husband and me.  It works well for us..