I am a 25 YO and have been married for 2 years.About a month ago my husbant asked me for anal sex .  I am disappointed and  refused him with an anger but then he showed me a video which was made by your institute about anal sex. I must say that you have done a great job with this video otherwise I would never consider anal sex..
 
I love my husbant too much. I really want to please him.But before I decide to let him do it I have some questions to be answered
 
1-The models in your video,were they real couples(Married or unmarried) or just seperate individuals  selected for this video?  
 
2- Can a woman really have an orgasm during anal sex without even touch any other part of body such as vulva or clitoris ?
 
3 What else would you like to suggest for me as I am going to do it first time ?
 
Your answer will be appreciated.Thanks in advance
 
 
 

Easy into anal sex.  it isn't bad  you refused him.  Work up to it.  Start with a well lubed finger, then a small vibrator.  If he doesn't like that, tell him you will do it after he takes a 8" dildo up his butt.

I have to tell everyone, I am an older Catholic woman.  We don't do this type of thing.  Then, I purchased my first video set.  The Great Sex for a lifetime.  In there, there was a segment where the man, a very strange older man, who liked having a very odd looking vibrator in is anus.  It stimulated his prostrate.  My husband has some prostrate problems and I asked him if he thought it would be pleasurable to him.  He didn't know, but says the doctors have spent so much time up there, he would try it.  Well, he really liked it. 

Then, he wanted to know I he could have anal sex with me.  If he had asked me that 1 year ago, I would have kicked him out of the house.  After having done this to him and bringing him both pleasure and relief, I figured I would try it.  What an experiance!  First, I was very tight and almost broke his finger.  Then after some more stimulation, I go so wet in my vagina, i wondered if I had wet the bet.  He assured me, it was my juice, not pee and we kept going.  When he put his penis in me, I loved it.  It was so raw and exciting and new. 

I have told him that we cannot do that every time we make love, but I will surely do it again..and again. 

The reason I am posting here, I need suggestion for anal lubrication.  The one that we used before was too goopy.  There was gel coming out of me to 2 days. I think we may have over lubricated.  Ladies, Any good suggestion?

Why come down hard on someone who asks a question that is important to her? You do a disercice to this site and to yourself with such a comment. If her husband really loves her, and she is uncomfortable about anal sex, he will not push her on it.

Now for the question, from what I understand, Sinclair uses real couples. I am not positive about all of the scenes in all of their "training" videos, but most are I believe.

As for what else to know, lubricate, lubricate, lubricate. Lubrication is to anal sex as location is to real estate.  If you truely love each other and you both want to try this, it can be great. If you are doing it only to serve him, you may never be able to enjoy it.

I have always wanted anal sex with my wife. We have been togather for over 25 years. We tried a couple times early on, but she was uncomfortable with it. Ever 5 or 6  years we would approach it again, with the same result. Now, later in our lives after raising children, having and empty nest, and again raisingg a 6 year old, we tried again. She loved it!!! In past times she said absolute no way, no how, no time, would she accept anal sex in the doggie position. Now often when we have sex, she will move and push in such a way that I know that is what she wants. She has always had a hard time or at least a long time to orgasm. I love ot eat her, so this works out well. If she has had multiple orgasms, and we have anal sex, she can have another orgasm with no other stimulation

My husband was stupid enough years ago to ask for anal sex and what made it even worse for him was that he thought he could persuade me by heavy pressure and coercion.  I changed the locks on all doors and made him beg for forgiveness and swear on a stack of bibles that he would never disgrace me again with another request.  I made it as clear as I could that if he needed that for satisfaction and fullfilment, he'd have to look for that between the cheecks of some other poor cow because any man in my opinion looking for that is only deviding his partner up like a side of beef, just my own personal opion of which I'm entitled and I never back down.  Ever!  Needless to say, he's never brought it up again and he knows the consequences for not respecting me and my body.

I think your husband should respect your wishes and your body.  He should find him "some other poor cow" to have anal sex with.  And he should put you out to pasture to breed with any old bull that comes along.  You married the guy.  Don't prejudge something.  Try it!  If you don't like it, tell him so and why.  THEN, if he truly loves you, he will respect your wishes and never bring it up again.  BUT, if you truly love him, you will at least try it unless your religious beliefs keep you from doing so.  But the way I understand things, what a man and a woman do between themselves when they are married is perfectly alright so long as no other person is involved and both parties agree to the act.     

Many times my boyfriend has made himself cum by rubbing against my anus.  It feels wonderful to feel his warm cum on my anus.  The other day a took his penis in hand and guided him him inside.  It was my first anal in sometime.  I kept my hand on his shaft as he gently worked it.  He and I came like crazy...

My girlfriend has told me she enjoys anal.  I have wanted my boyfriend to do it.  He always backs off.  My girlfriend let me know it would be no problem for her to share her boyfriend with me.  We all got together.  He was gentle and she guided him in.  I came so much!! over and over!!!!