Does everyone like to have this done by their girlfriend?  I really love it, but am I normal?

I have to ask the same question myself. I Just discovered my girlfriend has a strap-on.

Does anyone else have anything to add?  I have asked myself the same questions....

I just want to say that my husband loves me to use a dildo in his butt. He is not gay, just seems to really like the feeling of a dildo or a tongue on his ass. My question is this, I bought one strapon but it was pathetic. Does anyone have any suggestions as to a good one and where to get it? Thanks~

I love a tongue in my ass, as well as a good strapon, or vibrator.  My girlfriend has tried a couple of different ones, but nothing has wowed me yet.  Does anyone have any suggestions?

my husband also likes me to use a strapon, my problem is I am very scent oriented and sometimes it is just gross. Any suggestions?

  Give your husband an enema first; have him suck the strap on dong to get him in the mood; position him and use lots and lots of your favorite lubricant with your finger before penetrating him. I suspect there may be a scented lubricant that would be available.
 
Another method would be to tell him you would like to watch him and masturbate while he uses a slim vibrator or probe on himself.  For a great position put him on his knees, butt high and lower his panties to his knees.  He may not be gay or even a cross dresser but it sets the mood, especially if you helped pick out the panties and told the clerk they were for him.

Here is an eye-opening article on this very subject. Have you ever heard of the male G-spot? I hadn’t. I found it most intresting.
 
http://www.askmen.com/love/vanessa/23_love_secrets.html

my husband loves to lick my ass hole,and let me tell you it feels wonderful. everyone should try it.

If you're looking for a good strap-on, get a Doc Johnson Vac-U-Loc harness.  They have a big, flat plastic base that is ribbed.  The dildo slides onto this base and is held firmly.  No risk of it slipping off.

The Vac-U-Loc system has all kinds of dildos.  Big, small, purple, black, flesh--you name it.  Some with balls, some that look like a penis--some that don't look anything like a penis.  The harness can be had for about +/- $25 + shipping or you can find it at most local adult sex shops for slightly higher prices.  The dildos and attachments range in price from $10 up to $100.  Of course, bigger costs more $$$.

If you want one that provides stimulation for her, get the kind that has dual base plugs.  Then he can have whatever dildo he wants and she can also have an attachment for herself.  If she is a large woman ( like me), you may have some trouble getting the harnes to fit properly.   Simply but the bottom strap right where it passes under the periniam area and sew in some 2" or 3" wide elastic.  The actual straps are long enough to fit around all but the largest women, but if she has a lot of "junk in the trunk" (like me) the harness may need to be lengthened in the middle to get it to come up high enough on her hips in the back.

Yeah, we have one.    He loves it, and I get such a thrill out of pounding his tight little ass.  I just love to watch his ass jiggle everytime I slam it home.  He has the biggest orgasms.

I would like to reply to this one. When I was 1st told about using a strap-on on a man, or male anal licking and stimulation, I was taken aback! My 1st thought was "Gross! How gay!BUT, since I was talking to a good male friend of mine who has been open and honest in our conversations, I was able to feel free to ask questions about it. One of the things that stuck out in my mind was his reply to when I asked him how in the world would a guy get pleasure from that? As he told me... "think about it, if it did not feel good, why would gay men have it done to them?" It was a good question! Obviously you don't have to have a vagina to please a man, and since there is oral sex which could be done by gay men, why WOULD they do anal penetration if it did not feel good?  So I asked him if he had ever been anally penetrated, and what about it felt good if he had and had anjoyed it. He replied that he had by toys, not men, but that the reason is "ALL in the PROSTATE!" I had never thought of the prostate gland being particularly erogenous, but as he explained, by rubbing a man's prostate, it produces an intense pleasurable sensation that cannot be reproduced by any other manner of stimulation. Think about the difference between clitoral stimulation and vaginal stimulation. Just as both of those can produce and orgasm, so can penis and prostate stimulation. And just like there is a difference between a clitoral orgasm and a vaginal orgasm, there is a difference in the type of orgasm that a man can experience by being pleasured on the prostate than on the penis. In fact, there can be MORE pleasure from stimulating the prostate and he can experience a prostate orgasm which makes a penile orgasm somewhat pale in comparison. And the role of anal licking, or rimming, not only is pleasurable to a man, it also serves in making his anus more relax and accepting of a dildo or anal probe, and therefore is a quite useful form of foreplay. I must caution though, NEVER use a non-flexible dildo in the rectum as there is a danger of tearing the colon and causing severe health problems! Also, before inserting anything into the rectum, make SURE that he and whatever you are inserting is WELL lubricated. There is NOTHING as bad as having a "dry butt-fuck"...lol!  Additionally, I also recommend the use of a condom over whatever you are using on him to make clean-up quicker and easier, and also to protect from the spread of disease if you are using your fingers, or in the case of gay sex, a penis. So, I hope that helps you. Don't feel like you are a freak or that just because you like prostate stimulation that you are gay. Nothing could be further from the truth. It is a VERY normal thing to like to feel pleasure, whether it be straight or gay sex, so GO FOR IT! But as always, BE SAFE, and ALWAYS make sure that if you are doing it to someone else, they are CONSENTING! Have fun![sm=kiss.gif] P.S. My husband also wanted to let you know from a male point of view that he "enjoys the H$LL out it!" And, fyi- he is definitely NOT gay or bisexual. (although I am bi...lol)

Amen... There's NOTHING gay about anal contact. Though I'm not into oral-anal contact, I have used a finger... If there's an odor issue, or "uncomfortablness", just clean yourself! Take a shower, use yer hands or a washcloth, clean yer body up, and hey... should be good to go! It's not that difficult and this pertains to both males and females. Ask her to take a shower after you do! Clean up, smell clean, get into it... Should be no prob... I restored my foreskin... never knew males basically smell the same as females in there... I was really suprised... But if -I- can smell him... I clean "him" out... Water only, unless I have some inflamation... Then, a small dab of tri-antibactirial cream, (and don't use it a lot... Standard medical tolerance issues... Ya shouldn't need it often...) and yer cleaned up. Yeah, I supose this is the "bad foreskin" arguement, but trust me, keep it clean, it kills the friction discomfort, you can jack off using "skin alone", and it's the way nature designed males... Wish I could sue the Doc who cut me... I don't blame my parents as back in the '60s, that's what the medical community thought. note how U.S. circumcision rates have nosedived... Finally!!! ;) Sorry, but I feel very strongly about male mutilation... But they only call it "female mutilation"... Go figure...
Regards...

Oh, and BTW, yeah, the prostate gland likes stimulation and it's true, the old joke about guys "needing to get off or they'll get cancer" while not true about the cancer, IS true for the prostate... It's the feeling of oh, "a golfball in the rectum" feeling when the darned thing gets congested. So guys really DO need to get off to prevent major physical discomfort.... OK, at least when they age a little... lol But it does hurt, makes you pee like there's a cork in there, and makes life feel better when we "clean the pipes". Trust me gals, it really does feel like crap after a few days, a week, something around that time... I never realized it until it happened to me...

i have putt four fingers up my mans ass he says it dones not hurt could he be gay?

My  wife has done it to me many times, and have progressed to 8" strapon dildo. It is
not a Gay thing for all guys out there reading. Good lube, patience and practice
make it a great experience.  Find the realistic dildo with balls feels best.     

Try a 6" to 6.5" dildo to start , maybe1.5" width .  Wife and I have progressed to
8.5 "  dildo with suction cup and harnessable.  Guy can utilize the suction
feature and squat down on it and go to town , as can wife/ girlfriend.  Dildo with
realistic balls is best.    bettersex.com  has many offerings .  I am one of
the fortunate guys who can reach an orgasm  with anal intercourse and
wife enjoys strapping it on .  Good lube very important and  keeping clean
with frequent anal douching .  

my wife and I enjoy many things and have tried strapons and dildos. She doesn't care for them in her; but she does know how to use them. She straps on her 8" cock and feeds it to me. She gets off watching me lick and suck her cock. I love watching her get into it. As I am sucking on it she reaches over me and lubes my ass. Sticking her fingers in and then she has me turn around and she sticks her cock into me and Wow it feels so good. She ride me so hard until I have such a huge orgasm. BTW I am not gay and it feels so good!!!!!!

my wife has bent me over and fucked me as well with a strapon. it is such a turn on when your intoxicated. she has also made me get on my knees and had me suck it. i felt funny about it until i read all the posts on this site......i supose it' snot gay if it's a female and not a male.

My wife has done me several times, and we progressed to a realistic 8" with balls . I never
thought it would feel so good, but does indeed. I have never had it anally with a real penis
until recently. A recent Sauna room experience at my gym has given me first real anal
intercourse experience. Real penis ( 7') and 15 minutes getting banged is way better experience
than strap-on.  I'm bi-sexual now .    
 

Ass licking and strap on fucking doesn't turn me on; nor would I like to watch someone (male or female) being bonged in the ass.