I just had sex with a new partner for the first time, and i was very painful. I had noticed that his penis had much lenght to it but, i could not have imagined how it would feel. I must say he was trying to be gentle but a certain point it felt like it as literally in my stomach. I've had the pain for 3 days now. Was something damaged? Is this harmful for me? Should i try again or throw in the towel

rough beginnings

it is possible he had irritated or bruised your cervix. however sex should not hurt
next time try some lube and see if that makes it easier

well it was'nt the girth but the lenght that was so painful. i counld never attempt to take all if it it.

i guess what im really asking isn't possibly that he's just too long for me.
i have never been touch in that place as long as i have been have sex.
i understand lube and all that, but how is that gonna help with lenght.
help, help,

There is nothing you can do about a long penis. It's going to hit your cervix and that hurts you. He is just going to have to be careful and not thrust deep.

WOW it's unusual. It's more commonly to hear like "he's too short". My bf for example had to enlarge his penis by pumping and Extagen to be just average.

Comunication is all you need.  He knows how big he is.  In my experience with one of the larger ones I had I just took control. After feeling his size I knew for me I had to be in charge..in a gentle way.  I Let him know I was going on top and take all I could.  I felt more relaxed and was able to enjoy every bit of him.  I have been with smaller men that have hurt me.  I think it made him feel good too.  Letting him know I realized his size was the way to go.  I must say I have no problem with te size of my lover.  I have shared this with one of my girlfriends who kind of knew her man was large..it worked for her too.   

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Comunication is all you need.  He knows how big he is.  In my experience with one of the larger ones I had I just took control. After feeling his size I knew for me I had to be in charge..in a gentle way.  I Let him know I was going on top and take all I could.  I felt more relaxed and was able to enjoy every bit of him.  I have been with smaller men that have hurt me.  I think it made him feel good too.  Letting him know I realized his size was the way to go.  I must say I have no problem with te size of my lover.  I have shared this with one of my girlfriends who kind of knew her man was large..it worked for her too.   

Thank you!  Your advice worked.  My new companion is large to say the least.  I followed your method and sex could not be better.  His size in the begining had me worried if it would hurt.  Thanks again!!

I've been with 4 men, all three I thought were large, they all hurt during sex, my current boyfriend is huge, and there is no pain, is something wrong with me?

Maybe.

lol

im 15 and have a 7inch girth imagine how my girlfriend feels ;)

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im 15 and have a 7inch girth imagine how my girlfriend feels ;)

You're not supposed to use your arm.

i have been with my Gf for 5 years i have a 8 1/2 penis and 6 1/2 girth apperently it has hurt her fron day one ans after 5 years still does but we just take it slow and easy. i have tried many things and none seem to work missonary and her on top are all that we can do but its all good cuz its not SEX it making love.....

scientists say that if you drink and eat a lot of soy products it will cause your thing to shrink

AS THE ONE PERSON SUGGESTED. TRY ANOTHER POSIITION.
TRY HAVING HIM GO IN FROM BEHIND. DOGGIE STYLE. YOUR BUT WILL
HELP TO KEEP IT FROM GOING ALL THE WAY IN. TRY DIFFERENT POSITONS UNTILL YOU FIND ONE THAT WORKS FOR YOU.
WE USE THE SCISSOR POSITION. WORKS GREAT FOR US.

im 21 and i have 4.5 inch long how to long my lun

Work up to it.  Find somebody small enough that you can take without pain and then start moving up to men with increasingly longer and fatter penises.  Eventually, you'll not only be able to take this new guy, but you should work up to somebody even larger than him until you are comfortable completely with the penis that is just larger than his.  Then you'll be able to take his without any trouble whatsoever.

YOUR PENIS IS LITTLE!! 7 INCH IS NOT BIG!! 10 IS BIG GET ONE OF THOSE! LIKE MY MAN GOT! SORRY LITTLE BOY YOUR PENIS TOO SMALL.