My new companion and I recently had sex for the first time and I discovered he has an uncircumcised penis, a first for me.  I care for him a great deal and would like to please him as much as I can.  This is new territory for me.  I was performing oral sex on him and he "seemed" to be enjoying it.  However, he pulled me up before I finished.  He then told me he has never had an orgasim from oral sex, basically telling me it was a lost cause.  I don't know if he told me this to get me to stop because it wasn't enjoyable for him (I asked and he said it was) or if he was saving me from continuing on forever.  I've never had a guy not want me to do that, in fact I think I've had really good experiences with it.  However, it has always been with cut men.  I know he's into me so I don't understand.  Please help me to help him!

Ok, does no one want to help a lady out with this situation???  Please!!  We've become a lot closer now and I've talked to him about it.  I've asked him to tell me what he likes but he seems a little resistant.  Help a girl out...

There are millions of uncut men out there and everyone enjoys blowjob. In fact, once it is started and the penis gets full erection, the skin automatically gets retracted back. So at that point, there is no difference between cut ot uncut man. May be the man you met is an exception than rule. Personally speaking, I am uncut. I love my penis being sucked and I have no problem in cuming while inside my partner's mouth

I am cut but have had diffcult experiences with getting women to make me cumm orally.   From my best experience If you want him to blow in your mouth be aggresive, don't take no for an anwser, & suck him hard, long, & deep.  For a man who has a hard time cumming orally, I would have to say the biggest drawback is from women taking their time trying to suck slowlly and look cute while doing it.  While this might be enjoyable and even keeps an erection up it is not usually going to get the end result.  Remember this all the technique in the world is not going to make up for good old hard work & determination

Thank you both for your replies.  To the "cut" man, I have read that being too aggressive and sucking too hard can be uncomfortable and sometimes painful for an uncut man since they are much more sensitive.  That was my approach the first time, I've only been with cut men and went about it the same way.  After I read more about uncut men, I felt really bad.  The second time, I was a little more gentle and paid attention to his foreskin, even when erect, since I read the foreskin on an uncut man is very sensitive as well and can feel really pleasurable.  I almost had him.  I was so uneducated before and now, I have to say, I love his uncut penis.  I love how natural it is and yes, he is VERY clean.  I also love the fact that he has more sexual pleasure because he is uncut.  The sex is incredible.  It's obviously in his head.  I know growing up he got a lot of reticule and he probably is a little self conscious still.  However, the more we are together and he realizes how beautiful I think he is and how much I enjoy his manhood, he'll come around. (sorry, no pun intended).  I certainly am looking forward to trying, that's for sure!!

Good for you. Kudos. My best to you.
 
It is refreshing to actually see a woman who enjoys it the way you sound like you do.

  I'm 43 and had my first with foreskin.  It is so natural.  As my hand went to his penis I could feel the extra skin and could not go down fast enough.  I let him know how much it turned me on and how sensual it was to pull the skin back and expose and feel the smooth tip.  Just let your man know how special it it is for you to have him so natural.  A few of my girlfreinds have expereiced men with foreskin..some liked it some did not.  I have found it to be very sensual..

I have been with  partners who were shy about cumming when I went down on them.  Instead of them just letting go and cumming he would pull me up and we would finish  in another way.  This was driving me crazy.  I like giving head and having my man cum right then.  I like tasting him to.  So my plan was to make him from me giving him a handjob.  Just before he was ready to cum I wraped my lips around the head and let him cum.  This did work .  He enjoys me going down when ever I get the urge..which is allot..

Nothing like a man that is uncut.  I just love it.  I gently let my tounge slide between his foreskin and head.  The head of an uncut penis is just so much softer.  After we have both cum I just love going down on him..pulling back the skin and giving him a good licking

I am uncut and have no problems cumming orally when the woman is performing it well.  Being cut or uncut doesn't matter, but how it is being performed does.  After my penis is hard and erect the foreskin retracts and you really can't tell that I am uncut. 

I'm cut.  My girlfriend and I have talked about other partners.  She said that she likes foreskin better than a circumcised penis. 

Sounds like the gal who did this original post has discovered ways to play with her new lover that are working. Usually an uncircumcised penis is much more sensitive to touch because the head isn't having to rub against cloth all the time so it is protected and stays sensitive.
One of the advantages of an uncircumcised man is that during intercourse, the skin bunches up against the G-spot, primarily on the out stroke, and cause more friction for the woman. The head of the penis is structured such that, in a face to face position, the top part of the penis's head is thicker, at the frenulum, and thereby has more potential to add that extra bit of pressure on the G-spot area. When you add bunched-up foreskin to that you've got even more tissue to stroke the G-spot area. It's almost like this new, notorious, G-shot; it's adding extra bulk to the 'area' for more enhanced friction.
Suzie Heumann, tantra.com

My foreskin doesn't fully retract when the penis becomes erect. It's not universal. When recieving  the foreskin needs to be pushed back or else I will go forever when getting a blowjob. I think this may have been the original problem. But once you learn that...

He might be telling the truth, but from my experience getting head usually makes me cum. So it's down to whether you trust him.

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My new companion and I recently had sex for the first time and I discovered he has an uncircumcised penis, a first for me.  I care for him a great deal and would like to please him as much as I can.  This is new territory for me.  I was performing oral sex on him and he "seemed" to be enjoying it.  However, he pulled me up before I finished.  He then told me he has never had an orgasim from oral sex, basically telling me it was a lost cause.  I don't know if he told me this to get me to stop because it wasn't enjoyable for him (I asked and he said it was) or if he was saving me from continuing on forever.  I've never had a guy not want me to do that, in fact I think I've had really good experiences with it.  However, it has always been with cut men.  I know he's into me so I don't understand.  Please help me to help him!

This worked for me.  I think my man was a bit shy when I went down on him.  He would always want to cum by intercourse.  I was getting very frustrated and want to make him cum when going down on him.  I could feel he was peeking and just about ready to cum.  I was on top and just took it out and slid down and took him in my mouth...within a few moments he came in my mouth.  He still is a little shy but I have broke him of cumming just through intercourse.  I let him know when he was finished how much it turned me on.