Should a man be jealous, hurt, insulted, inferior, or whatever over the fact his gf or wife has and uses a vibrator? Should he have the right to wish her to stop or else he is leaving? Lastly, is such a man being foolish and possibly controlling?

I would love to hear your opinions please.

Btw this man in question, is not me. I am just curious to what you all feel about this particular topic.

I don't think a man should feel any of those things because of a vibrator. Because guess what? Everyone masturbates. That's right, everyone. Sure there is like 2% of the population that doesn't, but the rest do. And what do people do when they masturbate? They do what feels good, and if a vibrator feels good then they do that.
So that would be like me getting jealous of my boyfriend's hand. I don't think it should be insulting at all because people aren't always in the mood for sex. Sometimes people are tired, sick, out of town, whatever... So if your partner is not in the mood for whatever reason and you are, why not go for it?
If it was dinner time and your partner wasn't hungry would you eat anyway? Sure you would, same principle with sex.
You can't compare a person to a sex toy, it's not even on the same level.

Maia, very good points.

So, a person should not feel insecure or hurt?

I agree. Is there anyone out there that does not agree. Is there anyone reading this that thinks the man has the right to be angered off about his wife using a vibrator.

Is there anyone that has had an experience similar to what we are talking about? What was your reaction, and how did you solve the problem?

The only reason I could understand if a man were to be upset by this, is if the woman is using a vibrator [all the time] in place of sex with her man. If that's the case, then yeah it's wrong. But I have my doubts that there are a lot of women who are like that, unless their man really does not know how to use his tool and she's fed up with that.

A vibrator is not a big deal I can assure you. That's not something people get in a tangle over. Now guys and their porno, could be a different story.

Personally, if it was my girlfriend using a vibrator id be very annoyed. She shouldnt need to masterbate, thats what im there for. Shes getting off over a toy so does that make it ok for me to get off over porn? its the principal... i just dont feel comfortable with the thought of something else giving her the same climax that i can.

Michael

their are 2 sides to this!  As an older man, I sometimes have dificulty getting it up. so I have given my wife a few toys, one is a strapon I use when this happens, another is a small vibrator.  I enjoy giving her pleasure with it.   As she reclines I lay my head in her lap and use it along with fingers and toung to give her climaxex.  If yolu are talking about her using it INSTEAD of you, when you are avalable,  talk to her about it.  if you aren't avalable, I thing several of the other posts have covered that.  it is just masterbating, and dont we all do that!

buy yourself a FLESHLIGHT.  Get some good lube and have your wife use the fleshlight on you.  This is like a vibrator for men.  Only let your wife use the vibrator when you are using your fleshlight.  No use of toys when you are not together. 

A guy definatley NOT be irritated or upset by the fact his woman uses a vibe, grow up and get over it. Just because your woman uses one doesn't mean she isn't satisfied with you, she might just like the variety. If you masturbate, why can't she? Join in the fun and use it with her, have her show you how she likes to use it.