My wife and I have always been very open about nudity and sex, both with family and friends.  Over the years we've become very comfortable with some of our friends to the point that is not unusual seeing any of us teasing others about their body parts.  For the past few weeks, my wife has been talking about  how large one of our friend's penis is and wondering about how it would feel.  She has been grabbing it sometimes without any objection from anybody.  Now I've always had a fantasy of watching my wife with another man or men.  I'm thinking about having a birthday party for her in which I give her the answer to her thoughts about how our friend's penis would feel inside her, but since there will be other couples there, also letting her experience the size of any other person who is interested in entering her.  I don't think it would be that big a deal since she has already had several of the men sucking on her breasts and the wives and girlfriends have not complained when they saw it, but only laughed.  I'm not that worried about my wife leaving me for another man, but I don't want to upset too many of the wives and girlfriends such that we lose them for friends.  My question is, "Do you think the wives and girlfriends would be that upset since they have already seen their husbands and boyfriends sucking her breasts and fondling her breasts, backside, and pubic area.  If this is successful, it may become a regular part of our get-togethers.  Our families know we are very open about sex and nudity having experienced our nudity every time they come to visit.  I don't think they would be too upset or surprised about us sharing sex with friends.  In fact, I have some cousins who would love to partake of my wife and I'd love to partake of their wives.

Not sure about with friends or cousins.  If I were you , I would get your wife a
birthday present of another man(stranger) with large penis , and let him screw her .
No names and would just be an encounter experience.  Worst case scenario would be
she would want another man more often, but you  could work  in a 3some  .  She
should then be open to you having another woman on occasion . What is good for the
goose should be good for the gander.

 
   

My suggestion is that you talk with your friends before the birthday party.  See what they have to say, as far as the men I am sure they would go for it.  But maybe not so the girls.  You do not want to lose friends.  The guest had the right idea get her, her own cock to pay with.

    I took the advice about talking with our friends before her birthday.  I was pleasantly surprised with the ones I have talked with thusfar.  What really surprised me is that the wives were more in favor of their husbands having sex with my wife than the husbands were.  One of the wives even contacted my wife's sister and told her about my idea and my sister-in-law has called me and offered her husband as my wife's first extramarital partner.  I am really surprised at how readily everybody seems to want to do this.  I still have 4 more couples to talk to, but if everything goes like it has thusfar, I think my wife will be getting a lot of attention in 2 weeks.  I'm actually excitedly looking forward to this.  My sister-in-law suggested buying something called a love swing.  She said it would make it easier for my wife to enjoy the experience and not be so tired afterward.  My biggest concern is if she'll want even more sex with more men and where I am going to find them.  I think it best to keep the sex between friends since we don't really have a way of checking up on strangers and being sure they're safe.  Her best friend's husband from high school has shown considerable interest in my wife since he began dating his wife and she has even hinted about him wanting to "get into her pants."  I've always wanted to get into her best friend's pants.  Maybe this will work out for everybody.  I assume I can find a love swing at an adult book store.

If i ask my wife to have sex eith muy friend and in return she should

NEBRASKAN WOULD BE MORE THAN HAPPY TO PLEASE YOUR WIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    I had forgotten about this posting.  Well, it's been nearly a week since we had the party, but that hasn't stopped our friends from coming over and continuing to give my wife a "gift."  It was an amazing time.  At first, everybody seemed a little nervous, but I got tired of the nervousness and finally just blurted out, "Well, we all know why we're here and what we have planned, so why don't we get on with it."  Everybody agreed and the object of my wife's curiousity stepped forward and proceeded to fuck her doggy style in front of all of us.  While this was going on, my sister-in-law and her husband slipped in from the garage because I was afraid that if they appeared before everything got started, my wife would back out.  As it was, once she was fucked, my sister-in-law's husband stepped up behind her without giving her a chance to see what was going on and slipped his dick in her.  Two of the wives stepped on either side of my wife so she could not see who was fucking her until he had shot his load in her and then they moved and he asked her how she liked it.  You should have seen her jump, but when she saw her sister getting fucked by me she was alright saying he was good but she needed more - much more.  From that point on, everybody relaxed and before the night was over, every man and every woman had been fucked at least twice.  My wife got fucked at least six, probably more.  Once I saw that each man had fucked her, I quit checking on who got some from her. 
    As far as I can tell, nobody has any regrets.  There was a total of 6 couples and 3 of them have come for second servings.  This has enhanced our sex life tremendously.  My wife never wears clothes anymore if she can avoid it and has several times answered the door to perfect strangers totally naked.  We have never been closer and happier than we are now.  I think the more we open our marriage to other people, the better things are going to be provided, however, that we keep it open only to friends and family.  I told her about 2 cousins I would like her to fuck, to which she is agreeable, and she has told me she wants to fuck my boss and my father.  I'm OK with the boss, but I don't think the father will work out.
    I believe we live too structured lives and should take chances.  After all, she has done no harm by letting other men fuck her.  I have no objections and neither do their wives.  She is on the pill and has no plans to get pregnant by any of them so why not do what I know she did before she married me.  I knew she was fucking other men before we married, but that didn't stop me from marrying her.  It played a big part in making her the woman I wanted to marry and I believe continuing the practice will only help her develop into a woman I can love even more.

Would you please share with us the age range of your family and friends that share your wife and each other. How often do you party? Does your wife have a preference for your friend with a bigger penis? Do you folks do other games etc.

My wife and I are in our early to late forties.  The age range of our friends is from 26 to 63.  My wife's sister is closer to my age, 48.  Her husband is only 2 years older than she.  My cousins are 48 and 38 and we have since added my wife's closest childhood friend and her husband  We are hoping to add another member of her friend's family soon. There are presently 17 in our group of friends and add to that my sister-in-law and her husband, my two cousins, and my wife's friend and her husband and you have a total of 23 people in total of which 14 are male.  We used to get together about every 3 weeks, but after my wife's "initiation," the time period seems to be closing to about once a week with stopovers during the week from some of them.  As for as other games, not much.  There is some 3some and 4some action and there has been a little lesbian action.  No, she doesn't seem to prefer the friend with the largest tool, but instead actually prefers group action with her closest friend and her husband which I fully agree with since her friend is always available to me anytime.  They are staying with us while they search for a house in the neighborhood.

This, but is my biggest fanasy,  know but don't how to approach my wife on the subject. She did tell me one time that her ex- husband asked her to do this, and she refused.
any suggestions?

If you really want to do this, be prepared to take some time to achieve your goal.  The best way to start is to pay attention to which men she talks favorably about the most and to pay attention to which men she watches the most and spends the most time with at parties, gatherings, etc.

Next, have a party and invite those men to it.  Again pay attention to which ones she pays the most attention to.  Engage in conversation with him when she does, but don't monopolize the conversation.  Let her do most of the talking.  You want her to warm up to them and them to her.  Develop a friendship with those men and invite them over to dinner, but after a while become just a little late to arrive for dinner yourself giving them time to talk and possibly be alone. 

As I said, develop a friendship with them and arrange for them to be at your home when your wife is wearing skimpier than usual clothing.  If you have a pool, invite them over for a swim and gradually (very gradually) encourage to wear skimpier swimwear; perhaps a string bikini (and I do mean string.  One of those that is nothing more than a string running up her butt and a small patch to cover her crotch and small patches to cover her nipples.  Forget to inform her that you have invited the men over for a swim and make sure they get to see her in the skimpy bathing suit.  Throw a party with just you, the wife and the men when they have come over for a swim.  Get the wife loose with a few drinks.  If the men begin to get up against her or touch her in places they wouldn't normally, pretend not to notice.  If she says anything, tell her she's imagining their advances.  Gradually she will loosen up and forget about their advances and let them do things to her in front of you that she wouldn't before.  Encourage her to go topless at the pool when it's just the two of you.  Let this go on for a while before you start inviting the men over again so she becomes accustomed to being topless at the pool and inside the house.  She probably won't even protest the very first time.  Get her to wear see-through blouses at your parties and gradually get her to go without a bra or slip under those blouses.  Wear speedos at the pool and let the men wear them too.  She may become interested in the bulges in their speedos when they see her in skimpy swimsuits and/or topless.  If she says anything about them, ignore her comments at first.  If she continues, comment that they are no bigger than you are.  Maybe you can get her interested in letting them show her in front of you just how big they are or comparing lengths.  If successful, make the comment that it's not how big a person is, but what he does with what he has that counts.  If she says anything about you not doing much with what you have, let her know that the men can't do anymore with what they have than you can and probably not as much.  If she disagrees or challenges your comment, encourage her to find out just what the men can do.  Anytime you get a chance to let the men see her nude or partially nude, do so and act as though it's no big deal.  Gradually, she'll see it as no big deal.  If she likes to touch and feel the men while she talks to them, let her.  Enjoy it and leave temporarily to let her touch and feel in places she might not if you are present.  If you happen to come back in and catch her hands on something of theirs that she probably wouldn't put her hands on in public, ignore it.  Don't even says anything about it after the men are gone.  Let her bring the subject up.  Ask her how it felt and did she enjoy it.  If she says she did, just say "good."  If she asks if you mind her touching them, say "no."  She'll get the hint.  Once you see her getting exceptionally friendly with the men, arrange for them to be there and you be late getting home.  You want her first few times in bed with them to be private.  After you are sure she has been having sex with them for a while, you can get home in time to catch them together having sex.  When you do, just say "hello" to the men and ask her how her day has been or whatever you usually greet her with when you get home.  She may stop fucking them the first time you walk in on them, but if she asks you if you're upset, of course you're not.  You want her to be happy and to enjoy whatever makes her happy.  Gradually, you'll be able to work your way into a three-way or more-way and she'll also become more receptive to performing for a group at a party.  When I started encouraging my wife, I didn't realize it was eventually going to result in her fucking so many different men or performing for our get-togethers, BUT I must say I am EXTREMELY happy it did -- and so is she.  Good luck!

My wife and I did our first "swinging" recently.  The couple we did it with, he had a sexy young wife. I was really excited and honestly thought I was getting the best end of the deal.  His wife had perfect breast, tight body and a sexy trimmed pussy.  The night was going very well until I looked over at my wife and noticed how much she was enjoying it.  Then I noticed that the guy was hung like a porn star.  My god, it looked like a smaller guy, just kinda normal...but he was not normal below the belt.  I don't have a small penis, I am a thick 7", but this guy was easily 10" and had a head on him like a baseball. CRAP.  After seeing that, I could not enjoy his wife as much.  All I could think was that she was now with me and probably thinking how small I am.