Guest There is nothing to feel bad about for you or your partner, most woman don't reach orgasm through intercourse alone. There are things you can do to improve your chances of have a great orgasm while he is inside of you. 1. Work on your Kegel Exercises - the tightening of your vaginal walls. These are simple and can be done anywhere, anytime... your partner will love you squeezing him and it helps to get blood to that area. 2. I find that the woman-on-top position is great for an orgasm with him inside. You can massage your clit just the way you like it and you can use your Kegel exercises to massage him and force his penis up against your g-spot. 3. You should also invest in a water-proof bullet vibrator. You can use the vibrator to massage your clit and the base of your partner's penis while you are on top. I have had some of the best orgasms with him inside me doing all of these things. My husband and I swear by the Kegel exercises (both men and women can do it) They imporove your sex life for you and your partner. I hope this helps! Have fun with it! HappyWife