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sipho22

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How often is normal? - 12/15/2007 23:04:08
My wife and I are in our twenties, married for three and a half years, and have sex about once a week.  I am under the impression that a good sex life is more active than that, but I don't think she agrees.  She would probably go for two or three weeks at a time if I didn't say anything.  She is breastfeeding right now, but honestly, it wasn't much different before the baby.  What is a normal, healthy amount of sex for couples in a week, and is it usually different when breastfeeding?
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RE: How often is normal? - 12/18/2007 21:53:09
Okay, I want everyone who reads this to atleast just give me a number for how many time in a week you and your
partner have sex, and I can take an average from the responses.  Come on, nobody knows who you are.  Let us know.
And I am not talking about promiscuous sex with whoever you can find.  I want real, healthy relationships.
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RE: How often is normal? - 12/23/2007 18:40:27
I'm 32, wife 28.   married for almost 7 years.   Currently on a normal basis, we have sex about 2-3 times per week, with the exception of during her time of month. 
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RE: How often is normal? - 01/09/2008 14:53:42
I'm 45 and my husband is 51.  We've been married 25+ years.  Currently we have sex about 6 times a week.  We FINALLY figured out how to make the timing work with two young kids at home (ages 10 & 12). 
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RE: How often is normal? - 01/30/2008 14:50:42
Am 57, 3 times a day, 3 to 4 days a week is a good month!  Pratice makes perfect.
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Re: RE: How often is normal? - 08/23/2008 13:05:38
I'm 37, married 15 years, 3 to 4 times a day, 6 to 7 times a week, and B/Js when it's that time of the month.
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Re: RE: How often is normal? - 09/01/2008 16:52:00
Four times a week.  I'm open for sex during my period.  I don't know why but I feel horny then.  He always made me feel wanted in that time.  I guess it just turned me on.  Knowng your man understood you wanted sex during that time just drove me crazy. 
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Re: RE: How often is normal? - 09/04/2008 08:45:58
I am 61 1/2, wife     just turned 60,  maybe 1 / week, her choice. I would do it 2-3 times a day if had a paretner who would.  instaed I have to masterbate that often
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Re: RE: How often is normal? - 11/07/2008 21:02:45
my husband and i are 25 & we do it maybe 2 times a week if i am lucky. I always want it and it seems like he doesn't.
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Re: RE: How often is normal? - 11/13/2008 10:00:03
Me - 2 times/day M-F, 3 times/day Sa-S & Holidays
Wife - 4 - 5 times/day M-F, 2 times/day Sa-S & Holidays

We each have other lovers.
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Re: RE: How often is normal? - 01/04/2009 19:39:29
I win the age contest - I'm 77 and my lady friend is 71 - we have sex twice a week and I sneak out for a bj from a friend of mine (she is 27) once or twice a month. Do it all you can - life is short!!
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Re: RE: How often is normal? - 01/14/2009 23:32:42
CS:
 I am sixty and my wife is 54 and we have relations every week and I feel like having every day; otherwise I feel like doing handjob myself and enjoy or ask her to do blow job or handjob and give me pleasure.
always keep fucking and your dick should always be erect and should never come down
Fuck! blow!! hand on!!! and cum!!!! how interesting!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
even now my dick is erect and I am going to do handjob right now and then only I feel normal
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Re: RE: How often is normal? - 04/16/2009 06:39:26
Don't limit yourself to your "significant other" and ever how often you can get hard enough to complete the activity is normal.  It works for my wife and me.  We have sex whenever it's convenient and not necessarily with each other.  She's 47 and I'm 51.  Been doing it this way for 7 years now - ever since the kid left for college and we've never been more contented - neither have our partners.
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Re: RE: How often is normal? - 05/14/2009 10:58:12
personally, being 30 husband 35 with 3 young kids, we are averaging 4 times in a week, there are weeks that we are less active, and weeks we are more active.... it all comes with communication.... and there are times I may not be in the mood initially for the worry kids will hear or long day at work, but I always end with enjoying we did it... it is nice to have the understanding that there are times it will be quick (grab a toy to help her along her way), and then there are times we will enjoy the intimate.... you should sit and talk with her... breastfeeding will take away some of the drive, but only for the first 6 months or so while her hormones balance out.... hope this helps!
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Re: RE: How often is normal? - 05/16/2009 14:32:16
I AM 71 MY WIFE IS 63 WE HAVE SEX  1 OR 2 TIMES A DAY. SOMETINES MORE. IT IS THE BEST MEDICINE YOU CAN HAVE. IT REALXES YOUR ENTIRE BODY.IT IMMEDIATELY TAKES AWAY THE TIRED FEELING AFTER A DAYS WORK.IT LOWERS BLOOD PRESSURE.LOWERS BLOOD SUGAR.
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Re: RE: How often is normal? - 05/21/2009 23:54:52
Oh  My!!!  I'm 55 have not been with a woman for 5 years.  I have wonderful friendships...but that's it.  I do cherish the friendships.  It would be wonderful to just lose control.  I can't see making the first move..I truly love the friendships I have.   Am I helpless?  Any hints would be welcome.... 
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Re: RE: How often is normal? - 06/22/2009 15:39:25
5 times / week is ideal  
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Re: RE: How often is normal? - 09/04/2009 13:11:17
I'm 33. He's 36. We go weeks without sex, sometimes months. I masturbate A LOT, and I think he does too. Then again, I think we might be getting a divorce soon.
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Re: RE: How often is normal? - 09/05/2009 23:00:15
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I'm 33. He's 36. We go weeks without sex, sometimes months. I masturbate A LOT, and I think he does too. Then again, I think we might be getting a divorce soon.


I know what you're going through.  It's not easy.  Stay strong. 

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