My husband (47) and I (37) have a great sex life. We get busy pretty much every night at least 2 to three times and then a morning quicky before we're off to work. There is no complaints there at all. My problem is he loves it when I give him head or manually masturbate him but when it comes to him giving me head he just won't and it makes me feel left out. He does manual jobs great but giving head is avoided at almost any cost and he's not that great at it either. The last time I asked him he was down there for less than one minute and told me he couldn't breathe. Well move some stuff aside then. I shave my pussy so there is no hairs down there to bug him. As far as I can tell my slit is not like the Grand Canyon. Please what can I do, say or suggest to my hubby that I really would love the same enjoyment I give him? For guys that are great at giving head to a woman what advice or tips could you give my husband?

Assuming you have no health issues and everything is fresh and clean down there, I can simply say your husband is missing out of one of the greatest gifts he could share with you.  As a man of 61 who loves giving oral pleasure to my wife, I get a deep sense of satisfaction as I look up at her as she is nearing orgasm.  It actuaqlly increases my own pleasure.  And once she has cum, she is ready to feel my penis slip inside of her to finish what we have started.  So, if you let your husband know he is likely going to get a hotter hornier woman wanting him after he his licked her pleasure stop, he just might be willing to try it.  My wife lets me know exactly where and when it feels good for her.  Maybe you can let him know what feels good for you while he lets his tongue delights you toward the big O.

When I go down I postion myself so he has full view of my pussy.  I have bottom leg flat and the other with my foot flat on the matress. He then has full view my pussy.   As I'm going down on him I run my hand over my pussy and start masterbating it slowly.  Opening my lips and getting very wet.  I then take some of my juices to my mouth.  I then shared some my juices by gently rubing my fingers on his lips.  I have my man going down on me now very often. 

Personally, I thoroughly enjoy giving head and I can't think why any guy would refuse to do it.  The first time I went down on my lover I was there for about an hour and a half.  I'd have kept going, but by that point she just needed to be boned and proceeded to practically rape me.  The only advice that I can offer is to find out why he doesn't want to do it.  If he won't talk about it, get him drunk and then ask again! : )

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My husband (47) and I (37) have a great sex life. We get busy pretty much every night at least 2 to three times and then a morning quicky before we're off to work. There is no complaints there at all. My problem is he loves it when I give him head or manually masturbate him but when it comes to him giving me head he just won't and it makes me feel left out. He does manual jobs great but giving head is avoided at almost any cost and he's not that great at it either. The last time I asked him he was down there for less than one minute and told me he couldn't breathe. Well move some stuff aside then. I shave my pussy so there is no hairs down there to bug him. As far as I can tell my slit is not like the Grand Canyon. Please what can I do, say or suggest to my hubby that I really would love the same enjoyment I give him? For guys that are great at giving head to a woman what advice or tips could you give my husband?

I feel for you.  I enjoy when my husband goes down on me.  We are in our fifties.  I'm on the large size down there...vulva.  That has never been a problem through my life with him or other partners.  Try to start him off kissing and licking your thighs..soft kisses on the top of your pussy above your clit..ask him to  gently lick up and down both sides of your vulva.  Relax and let him know how much you would like him to do this for you..